6. My spouse will take care of my retirement
You might be tempted to rely on your spouse’s retirement, but let me tell you a secret: it’s a very bad idea. Another myth that is spreading around lately is that a spouse is somehow obligated to take care of two people when they retire. What if you get divorced? This can happen.
It might be nothing compared to other things, but if you are planning on relying on someone else’s money, then it’s time to rethink the whole situation.
You need to talk about the joint survivor option in case something bad happens to your spouse.
If you both have retirement savings in a 401(k) or IRA, you need to be sure you will be the first beneficiary. Otherwise, you will be left without anything.
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I retired and my husband passed away three months later. He was self employed and did not believe in retirement planning. I am so happy that I did. Every point made in this article is true. I work two part time jobs and receive Social Security and retirement.
Everything in the article is true. I pray people aren’t so quick to stop working because they turned 65. You are going to need Social Security, pension and/ or another form of income depending on your financial situation. Remember, always take care of yourself.
Most of this does not apply to me e.g., I did retire when I wanted to, am living fine on my soc sec check (so, not working; thought I would work part-time), have plenty of time to myself (in spite of being grandma’s taxi service for 2 teens), etc.. I did wait until 72 to retire because I loved my job and was healthy enough to do so.
I’m one of those who were forced to retire to make way for the young. (Another myth… there’s no such thing as ageism.) Wanted 2 more years to pay off house and go out on my own terms. Oh well, that’s life!
Fortunately, we’re pretty good retirement-wise. SS, Pension & 401k & IRA. AND we will liquidate and move to smaller house down south.