Supporting adult children
Many retirees still support their adult children with money, whether through helping with their college tuition or even providing full financial assistance during difficult times. It’s true that no one should stop you from helping your children, but it’s very important to prioritize your retirement savings first.
If you want to help them, you should still decide on a set of boundaries and find ingenious ways to help them while encouraging financial independence. You could also discuss potential expenses with them and decide on a plan together.
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The worst cost is the ridiculous property taxes that the blue states have! NJ is the worst. That is a total waste of $$$!
Do not move to Palm Beach County in South Florida…..everything is more expensive insurance, both car and homeowners; higher rates than NJ!! HOA monthly fees are through the roof, entertainment, parking, food ..they are trying to gentrify the county for only the rich…; something Miami, Ft. Lauderdale and the like have been doing for years!!! Unless you have lots of $$$$…it’s not your “grandparent’s retirement ….and be most wary of your healthcare!!!
I will sell my house in a split second. Worst decision I ever made was buying a house. Even though I have a low interest rate, I am sick and tired of being nickel and dimed to death with fees by my mortgage company.
Curious on how your mortgage company can charge you more fees since owning the house.
Did you apply for an equity line credit, or refinance the mortgage? My experience has been when I closed on my house, there weren’t any more fees other than what I agreed to pay each month.